RELATIONSHIPS-PART 3 [SELF]


HELLO Y'ALL,
PART THREE OF RELATIONSHIPS IS WHY
IT'S IMPORTANT TO HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF. YES, IT'S VERY IMPORTANT. WHY NOT KNOW ABOUT YOURSELF. TAKE THE TIME FOR YOU.
I KNOW SOUNDS LIKE LONER STATUS BUT HOLD THE PHONE IT'S NOT LIKE THAT.
IT'S A LITTLE WEIRD TO TALK ABOUT MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MYSELF....ONE IT'S BETWEEN ME HAHAHAHA SECOND SOUNDS FUNNY, SEXUAL AND SELFISH HAHAHAHA.... I'M NOT A SELFISH PERSON.I FEEL WEIRD TALKING ABOUT MYSELF AGAIN BUT 
WHAT THE HECK OH WELL IT'S IMPORTANT TO BUILD THAT RELATIONSHIP WITH WELL YOURSELF. 
I THINK I'M HILARIOUS, DORKY, WEIRD AND ROMANTIC AND MUCH MORE. BACK THEN IN HIGH SCHOOL EVEN UP TO TWO YEARS AGO I DIDN'T KNOW MUCH ABOUT ME---- LIKE BE AWARE OF MYSELF I KNEW WHO I WAS BUT I WAS MORE AWARE OF OTHERS THAN HAVING A GOOD OLD TALK WITH MYSELF.OTHERS WOULD TELL ME AND I WOULD AGREE, BUT I DIDN'T TAKE THE TIME TO THINK ABOUT AND ACCEPT LIKE THAT I'M DORKY.AT FIRST IT WAS WEIRD TO TELL MYSELF HEY YEAH I AM DORKY HAHAHAHA NOW I AM AWARE OF COURSE AND IT HAS MADE ME MORE AWARE OF WHO I AM. I'LL CONTINUE ABOUT ME LATER I GUESS UGHH MAYBE NOT HAHAHAHA...... I DON'T LIKE TALKING ABOUT MYSELF NOT THAT I DON'T LOVE ME I DO BUT I DON'T KNOW SOUNDS WEIRD BECAUSE THIS IS MY BLOG AND I TALK ABOUT MYSELF OR EXPRESS MYSELF HERE BUT WHEN IT'S LIKE STRAIGHT TO WHO ARE YOU IN DETAIL, I'M MORE OF A GET TO KNOW ME IN PERSON JUST A LITTLE WEIRD TO WRITE IT HERE.
SO GOD GAVE ME THE RIGHT VERSE TO START THIS POST TODAY.

WHOEVER HAS NO RULE OVER HIS OWN SPIRIT IS LIKE A CITY BROKEN DOWN, WITHOUT WALLS. -PROVERBS 25:28


AS MUCH AS I LOVE HELPING OTHERS, AT TIMES I SET MYSELF BOUNDARIES BECAUSE I ALMOST LOST MYSELF TWICE FOR DIFFERENT BUT SIMILAR SITUATIONS.I KNOW NOW THAT I HAVE TO HAVE BOUNDARIES FOR MYSELF. I CAN'T PLEASE EVERYBODY. I NEED TO DO WHAT'S BEST FOR ME AND TO DO THE THINGS I LOVE. WHEN YOU HAVE BOUNDARIES FOR YOURSELF, YOUR MORE FOCUSED, MORE CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF AND MORE HAPPY. IF YOU DON'T YOU WILL FEEL LOST OR NOT WORTHY LIKE A CITY WITHOUT WALLS. WHAT IS A CITY WITHOUT WALLS....NOTHING. LET'S GET THIS CLEAR, YOUR NOT NOTHING. YOU ARE WORTHY.....COME ON LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND LOOK AT YOURSELF AND SAY I AM WORTHY AND KEEP REPEATING INTILL YOU BELIEVE BECAUSE I DO... YOUR WORTHY.... YOUR SUPER DUPER AWESOME.

SO SET BOUNDARIES/RULES FOR YOURSELF. KNOW YOUR LIMITS AND DISCIPLINE YOURSELF, OK SOMETHINGS YOU WILL BE LAZY LOOK I GET IT SOMETIMES I WANT TO BE IN BED AND WATCH MOVIES ALL DAY BUT THAT'S NOT LIVING LIFE. I'M A ADVENTUROUS PERSON BUT I KNOW MY BODY NEEDS TO RELAX, SO REST. BALANCE IS KEY. AS EXCITED OR DETERMINED YOU ARE.... YOU CAN'T DO EVERYTHING AND AS MUCH AS YOU THINK BEING IN BED ALL DAY IS FUN FOR YOU IT'S NOT HEALTHY.

GOD ALREADY KNOWS WHO WE ARE AND WHAT WE WILL BECOME. SO I BELIEVE THAT WE KNOW PART OF US, BUT THAT WE CREATE OURSELVES WITH WHAT DOESN'T BREAK US. I THANK GOD AND THE RELATIONSHIPS I'VE BEEN IN AND HAVE BECAUSE I WOULDN'T BE THE WOMAN I AM TODAY.  

MAKE A PROMISE TO YOURSELF AND ALWAYS REMIND YOURSELF. I READ THE "I PROMISE MYSELF" FROM THE SECRET AND EVERY MORNING I READ IT. I'VE ALSO MADE OTHER SMALL PROMISES AND KEEPING IT MAKES ME MORE HAPPIER. 

DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF. SERIOUSLY RELAX, ENJOY LIFE. MOST IMPORTANTLY ENJOY THE MOMENT AND ENJOY BEING YOU BECAUSE NOBODY ELSE IS YOU. YOUR THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS YOUR BRAIN, THOUGHTS, HEART, SPIRIT.BELIEVE IN YOU!LAUGH AT YOURSELF TIME TO TIME NOT IN A NEGATIVE WAY BUT LEARN TO RELAX. DO SOMETHING YOU LOVE FOR YOU! MAYBE YOU LOVE READING ALONE AND READING THAT BOOK IN A WEIRD VOICE AND IF THAT MAKES YOU LAUGH DON'T STOP BECAUSE IT MAKES THAT BOOK MORE INTERESTING AND DO IT FOR YOU IGNORE WHAT OTHERS SAY. 

DON'T LIE TO YOURSELF. MAN THIS HITS CLOSER THAN THE OTHERS BECAUSE IN MY PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP I LIED TO MYSELF.YOU CAN READ IT IN MY PREVIOUS POST BUT YA I LIED TO MYSELF. I WOULD SAY YOU DESERVE IT DEAL WITH IT AND YOU DON'T DESERVE BETTER AND LET ME TELL YOU I DID DESERVE BETTER. THINGS WILL CHANGE AND SO MUCH MORE.

NEXT, THINGS WON'T CHANGE IF YOU DON'T ACT ON IT IN A POSITIVE HEALTHY WAY. YOU ULTIMATELY HAVE THE CONTROL TO YOUR LIFE. YOU CHOOSE WHAT YOU LIKE/LOVE AND DISLIKE. DON'T SETTLE IF YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE BETTER AND DON'T PUNISH YOURSELF FROM THE MISTAKES IN YOUR PAST. LIVE IN THE NOW.

 DON'T PUT YOURSELF DOWN. BE YOU AND CELEBRATE THAT! DON'T TRY TO CHANGE TO BE SOMEONE ELSE BECAUSE YOUR NOT BORN INTO THIS LIFE TO BE SOMEONE ELSE.THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU...LOVE YOU AND NOT THAT OTHER PERSON YOU WANT TO BECOME. IF SOMEONE INSPIRES YOU GOOD BUT DON'T LET THEM MAKE YOU FEEL WORTHLESS OR UGLY. FIND YOUR STRENGTHS.

SO AFTER YOU KNOW YOUR STRENGTHS ACCEPT YOUR FLAWS TRUST ME THIS IS A HARD ONE. LEARN TO CONTROL THE FEELINGS YOU HAVE FOR YOUR FLAWS AGAIN DON'T BE SO HARD ON YOURSELF. NOBODY IS PERFECT. YOU CAN HIDE YOUR TRUE SELF AND YES THERE IS PHOTOSHOP I KNOW I'M A PHOTOGRAPHER I USE IT TO EDIT CLIENT WORK BUT IF I PHOTOSHOP MYSELF 20 POUNDS LIGHTER I'M LYING TO MYSELF AND OTHER PEOPLE BECAUSE I'M NOT 20 POUNDS LIGHTER. SOMETIMES I USED LOOK IN THE MIRROR AND SAY EWW LOOK AT THAT NOSE.... I USED TO DO THIS A LOT TO THE POINT WHERE I COULDNT LOOK AT MYSELF IN THE MIRROR. I WAS GROSSED OUT. NOW I THINK THAT'S CRAZY TO THINK I LET ONE THING(MY NOSE) GET ME SO DOWN THAT I COULDN'T LOOK IN THE MIRROR.I FELT LIKE SOMEONE ELSE. I WAS MY OWN BULLY. THEN I FIGURED OUT, I'M HURTING MYSELF THAT'S NOT HEALTHY. HOW BAD IS YOUR NOSE REALLY?... THEN I LOOKED TO FIND SOMETHING GOOD ABOUT MY NOSE AND I DID AND THE MORE I DID I TOLD MYSELF WOW IT'S NOT THAT BAD GET OVER IT HAHAHAHA. I HAVE TO LIVE WITH THIS ONE BODY SO BE GOOD TO IT. I LIKE MY NOSE NOW. I ALSO FOUND I COULD CHANGE CERTAIN THINGS. I PERSONALLY WOULDN'T GET SURGERY TO CHANGE MY APPEARANCE.... THE THOUGHT ABOUT SPENDING SO MUCH MONEY PSHH ILL RATHER USE THAT MONEY TO TRAVEL OR THE THOUGHT OF TAKING SO MUCH MEDICINE TO HEAL UHHHH NO THANK YOU BUT LIKE MY STOMACH. I ALWAYS WANTED A FLAT STOMACH NOT BECAUSE OTHER WOMAN HAVE IT GOOD FOR THEM BUT JUST WANTED IT HAHAHAHAHA. I DON'T HAVE A FLAT STOMACH, BUT I KNOW WITH EXERCISE AND A HEALTHY DIET I CAN. I HAVE MY INSECURITIES BUT I MADE A PROMISE TO MYSELF TO STOP BEING A BULLY TO MYSELF. I ACKNOWLEDGE IT AND JUST BRUSH IT OFF MY SHOULDERS HAHAHAHAHA.

TRY NEW THINGS GET OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE SOMETHINGS BECAUSE YOU LEARN TO SEE WHAT YOU LIKE AND DON'T LIKE. YOU WON'T KNOW IF YOU DON'T TRY.

ENJOY YOUR OWN COMPANY...ALONE...YES, YOUR OWN COMPANY. LIKE I SAID SOUNDS WEIRD AND LONER. YOU MIGHT THINK THAT'S BORING BUT THE MORE YOU FIND TO ENJOY YOURSELF IT WILL MAKE YOU MORE CONFIDENT. SO LIVE LIFE MORE. I ENJOY ME TIME, IT GIVES ME TIME TO REFLECT ON WHAT I CAN IMPROVE ON ABOUT MYSELF AND GIVES ME TIME TO RELAX AND CLEAR MY THOUGHTS AND BE HAPPY...TO RECHARGE. I DO ENJOY THE COMPANY OF OTHERS TOO BUT I BELIEVE TO NOT CROWD SOMEONES SPACE. EVERYBODY NEEDS THEIR ME TIME. YEAH GOD MIGHT HAVE BROUGHT YOU TO HELP OTHERS BUT YOU ARE A PART OF THIS WORLD, THIS LIFE TOO SO BE TRUE TO YOU TOO. HOW CAN YOU HELP OTHERS WHEN YOU DON'T ENJOY YOU OR KNOW YOURSELF 
SO BE GOOD TO YOU!
SO MY RELATIONSHIP WITH MYSELF IS SOOOOOOOO MUCH BETTER. IT'S LIKE AN OLD MARRIED COUPLE WHO FIGHTS A LITTLE BUT LAUGHS AND LOVES WAY MORE. IT'S IMPORTANT TO ME BECAUSE IT MAKES ME MORE HAPPY, MORE AWARE, MORE UNDERSTANDING OF THINGS AROUND ME.I LOVE MORE.

SO I SAY THIS TO MYSELF EVERY MORNING. I CHANGED LIKE A SENTENCE BUT MAINLY EVERYTHING I GOT IT FROM THE SECRET BY CHRISTIAN D. LARSON



I PROMISE MYSELF...
TO BE SO STRONG THAT NOTHING CAN DISTURB MY PEACE OF MIND. TO TALK HEALTH, HAPPINESS, AND PROSPERITY TO EVERY PERSON I MEET. TO MAKE ALL MY FRIENDS FEEL THAT THERE IS SOMETHING WORTHWHILE IN THEM. TO LOOK AT THE SUNNY SIDE OF EVERYTHING AND MAKE MY OPTIMISM COME TRUE. TO THINK ONLY OF THE BEST, TO WORK ONLY FOR THE BEST AND TO EXPECT ONLY THE BEST. TO BE JUST AS ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT THE SUCCESS OF OTHERS AS I AM ABOUT MY OWN. TO ACKNOWLEDGE AND NOT REPEAT THE MISTAKES OF THE PAST AND PRESS ON TO THE GREATER ACHIEVEMENTS OF THE FUTURE. TO WEAR A CHEERFUL EXPRESSION AT ALL TIMES AND GIVE A SMILE TO EVERY LIVING CREATURE I MEET. TO GIVE SO MUCH TIME TO IMPROVING MYSELF THAT I HAVE NO TIME TO CRITICIZE OTHERS. TO BE TOO LARGE FOR WORRY, TOO NOBLE FOR ANGER, TOO STRONG FOR FEAR, AND TOO HAPPY TO PERMIT THE PRESENCE OF TROUBLE. TO THINK WELL OF MYSELF AND TO PROCLAIM THIS FACT TO THE WORLD, NOT IN LOUD WORDS, BUT IN GREAT DEEDS. TO LIVE IN THE FAITH THAT THE WHOLE WORLD IS ON MY SIDE, SO LONG AS I AM TRUE TO THE BEST THAT IS IN ME.



WISHING YOU LOTS OF LOVE FROM MY HEART TO YOURS
XO AMANDA BERNADETTE

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